The present invention relates to a developmental “teaching toy” and, more particularly, to a teaching aid in the form of “footprints” for developing empathy in young children.
The term “emotional intelligence” was first used in 1990 by Peter Salovey and John Mayer, two psychologists interested in understanding people beyond the well-known metric of one's “intelligence quotient” (IQ). Five years later, this concept was popularized in the book Emotional Intelligence, by Daniel Goleman. Goleman defined emotional intelligence as “abilities such as being able to motivate oneself and persist in the face of frustrations; to control impulse and delay gratification, to regulate one's moods, and keep distress from swamping the ability to think, to empathize, and to hope”. Simply put, emotional intelligence is the collection of emotional qualities that guide us in how we feel, think and take action in our lives. Emotional intelligence determines how we interact with people and our own self-awareness.
As IQ is to intelligence, so “EQ” is synonymous with “emotional” intelligence. A significantly important difference between IQ and EQ is that EQ is less genetically determined. For children, this means that their EQ can be influenced to a greater extent (and thus, increased) by their parents or other caregivers, particularly since a child's brain continues to grow, particularly between the ages of three and eight. Research in brain physiology has shown that all individuals have components in the brain that comprise the “emotional brain” and the “thinking brain”. Children can learn approaches that can trigger the circuits between the emotional brain and the thinking brain, allowing these children to grow in their emotional skills. The goal of emotional intelligence is to have both brains partner together and effectively interact to enhance a child's overall well-being.
Young children, especially toddlers up through age three, are still very egocentric. The ability to think beyond themselves—“empathize”—is a difficult task and extremely hard to explain or “teach” to a youngster still exploring his/her own emotions. An empathetic person has understanding and acceptance of the feelings and actions of others. Therefore, a child who develops a sense of empathy has the ability to become a more understanding, caring friend.
The present invention relates to a developmental “teaching aid” and, more particularly, to a teaching aid floormat in the form of “footprints” for developing empathy in young children by allowing a child to “stand in one's shoes” (hereinafter referred to as “empathy shoes”).
In accordance with the present invention, a pair of empathy shoes is formed as a multi-dimensional floor mat upon which a young child may stand and focus their thoughts and feelings in terms of literally “standing in the shoes” of someone else. In one embodiment, the empathy shoes may comprise a two-dimensional mat of a relatively pliable material (such as, for example, a plastic or foam) that may be easily transported from room to room and location to location. Alternatively, a three-dimensional floor mat may be formed, in accordance with the present invention, where the outline of the empathy shoes is recessed within the top surface of the floor mat. The floor mat may be formed to include a releasable attachment arrangement (such as, for example, hook and loop fasteners) so that different “pairs” of shoes may be attached to and removed from the floor mat. Indeed, the depiction of the shoes may vary, as needed to fulfill different learning environments. For example, in a classroom setting, the shoes may be a pair of children's sneakers, so that a child may “stand in the shoes” of one of his/her peers. In therapy situations, the depicted shoes may be those of a parent or other authority figure. Many other depictions are possible—a pair of bedroom slippers to assist in dealing with bedtime issues, ballet slippers for use with a dance class, etc.
In any of these embodiments, a pressure-sensitive playback mechanism can be included within the floormat such that when an individual stands on the mat, a phrase such as “How does it feel to be in someone else 's shoes? ” is played (thus prompting the individual to think about that question).
Indeed, the various aspects and features of the present invention are best understood by reference to the following description and the associated drawings.
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The present invention, as discussed above, is directed to a teaching aid for developing empathy in a young child and, more particularly, to an educational aid in the form of a multi-dimensional floor mat outing a pair of shoes (“empathy shoes”). In accordance with the use of the inventive “empathy shoes” floor mat, a child is instructed to “stand in the shoes” of someone else by standing on the “empathy shoes” floor mat and exploring various emotions that may be felt by others in a particular situation.
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In an exemplary utilization, the empathy shoes floor mat of the present invention may be placed in the center of an area devoted to a group activity, such as “circle time”, where children are expected to interact and share their thoughts and/or concerns. While perhaps reading an associated children's book on the subject of emotions, a child may be selected to stand on the shoes and asked a questions such as, How do you think it feels to be in [the character's] shoes? (the question being asked by a teacher in those situations where the floor mat itself does not contain a pressure-sensitive playback mechanism). Teachers may then facilitate further discussion, or model empathetic behavior in response to the child's answer. As the story continues, the teacher may then call on other children to “stand in the shoes” of one or more story characters.
In a classroom setting, the inventive empathy shoes may be placed in a visible location and used through the day to facilitate conflict resolution or bring attention to the effects that different actions have upon one another. The inventive empathy shoes are considered to be a non-threatening tool to assist teachers/daycare providers in reconciling peer pressure among children in the classroom. As the empathy shoes become used on a regular basis, the visual cues associated with merely seeing the shoes begins to assist children in developing empathy without even going through the exercise of standing on the shoes.
As mentioned above, an exemplary embodiment of the present invention may use a three-dimensional floor mat with the depiction of the empathy shoes recessed within the top surface of the floor mat.
The empathy shoes teaching aid of the present invention is considered to be useful in a number of different situations, as obvious from the above discussion, including one-on-one instruction/therapy, or in a classroom setting with a number of children. The inventive empathy shoes floor mat is considered to be an effective tool in deflecting conflicts among children by focusing their attention (and associated feelings) to the shoes themselves, thereby allowing the children to more freely express their emotions while “standing in the shoes”. Indeed, as the empathy shoes of the present invention are used, they become a visual, concrete cue for the children to stop and think about the effects of their words and actions on others, thus developing “empathy” in children at an early, impressionable age. Inasmuch as the inventive empathy shoes floor mat may be used in such a wide variety of circumstances and may depict such a wide variety of types of shoes, it is to be understood that all of these variations are considered to fall within the spirit and scope of the present invention as defined by the claims appended hereto.
The present application claims the benefit and priority of Provisional Application No. 60/509,887, filed Oct. 9, 2003.
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60509887 | Oct 2003 | US |